Friendship House is a home for men who are
primarily
in recovery from substance abuse, have little to no
income and need a
safe place to live. Our home
extends the love and grace of God in practical ways
by
the live-in manager and volunteer staff as community
and family living are
worked out on a day to day basis.
A large percentage of men are waiting to
secure a bed
in a long-term rehab while a smaller percentage are
part of our
in-house mentoring program.
2.
Is
Friendship House Chemical Free?
Yes, but smoking is allowed in a designated area.
3.
How do you
get your funding?
All of our funding comes from private donations. There
are hundreds of
individuals who believe in what we do
and contribute to this work on a regular
basis. We also
apply for some grants that support and encourage the
type of work
we do. We receive no Local, State or
Federal monies.
4.
Who can live at Friendship House?
Men who are in need can stay at Friendship House
if:
·
They are emotionally stable enough to live in
a
cooperative, community setting
·
18 or over
·
Free from chemical abuse
·
Lo-income or no income
5.
How
long can guests stay at Friendship House?
We are a primarily a short-term facility, with the
average stay falling somewhere between 3 to 6
months. Ultimately,
individual circumstances dictate
how long a guest stays with us. In some
cases we
may decide to keep someone longer than 6 months,
provided they are
following all house rules and working
towards attainable goals.
6.
How do you get referrals for Friendship House?
Most guests are referred by hospitals and detoxification
programs. We however do
receive referrals from
churches, family and friends.
7.
How does a person find out about becoming a guest at Friendship House?
Each applicant is pre-screened on the phone, then a
screening appointment is set
up to determine whether
he would fit as a guest and be willing to comply with
the house rules. A recommendation is usually made by
an outside professional or
support person.
8.
What is it like living at Friendship House?
Up to 16 men share 10 bedrooms while the live-in
manager resides in an apartment
in the rear of the
house . It is run like a home with everyone having
chores,
cooking and cleaning responsibilities, and
phone coverage. The day begins with
wake-up at 7:00,
morning devotions at 7:30, sit down dinner at 5:30,
curfew at
10:00. Throughout the day the men attend
A.A. meetings, counseling, or medical
appointments in
the community. Each guest prepares his own breakfast
and lunch.
Weekly house meetings are an opportunity
to discuss problems and work through
issues of
community living. Many times early childhood hurts,
resentments and
anger surface. The staff provide the
nurture and care to deal with some of the
emotions
that surface. Each guest is valued and met where they
are at.
Individual appointments are made weekly
Many of the previous guests who are
part of the
extended family will drop by for coffee, volunteer, or
attend the
various house events.
9.
Are there religious requirements for Friendship House?
Guests are required to attend daily devotions at the
house to help them with
spiritual issues.
10.
Does a person have to be a Christian in order to come to Friendship House?
No. Friendship House is a Christian home that is
run on
Christian principles. The manager is also a Christian.
However, we do not
exclude individuals of other faiths,
nor do people have to believe what we
believe in order
to come. We do however, feel that an individual is
made up of
three parts, the physical, the
emotional/intellectual, and the spiritual. We are
only
helping two-thirds of a person if there is no help for
the spiritual side
of an individual. We offer that side if
people are interested. From our
experience, most
people are interested in connecting with their former
religious
upbringing.